One of the many highlights of 2011 was the New York City Marathon. A favourite of mine, I’ve have now run it 2.5 times and each time it is extraordinary.
It was all over for me at mile ten when a man in a chicken suit passed me. Five miles into the New York City marathon I found myself on a different kind of journey than I had ever been on in a race. The one walking before anyone around me, I had to figure out how to drop out. After completing a dozen marathons I wasn’t exactly sure how to walk out on this one.
Ten years ago my friends Norm, Kelly and I ran this epic challenge. It was the year of 9/11 and it was kind of scary to travel to NYC. Mayor Giuliani made a speech before the gun went off telling us that we were brave to be there, that we shouldn’t let anyone change our way of life.
We knew that we would go back again for the ten year anniversary but when Norm said that he was ready to go… I wasn’t entered, but neither was he or Kelly. He signed us up for a charity called Team Continuum and donated the money so that we could compete.
The man that was leading our team, Jon, has stage four cancer and he was not only determined to run the race himself but to make sure that the whole team finished the marathon.
My little back problem seemed like a silly excuse not to at least join them part of the way. I had the option of VIP seats beside my husband at the finish line and a catered breakfast and lunch at “Tavern on the Green” watching the super fast elite runners finish or the unknown of figuring out how to just run the first part of a race, drop out and make my way through NYC in my running shorts.
The whole team had a relationship with cancer and they were all there for a reason. In a text message to me afterwards Norm said “that was almost a religious experience.”
Norm, Kelly and I held hands on Staten Island as we prepared to cross the Verrazano-Narrows Bridge. I had a pack around my waist with my camera, $100, a cell phone and American Express card, ready to be a drop out. The gun went off and we were serenaded by the song “New York, New York” playing on the load speakers. We all sang along and ran across the 2 km bridge with 45,000 athletes of all shapes and sizes.
At the start line anything is possible, anything. People with cancer can compete and complete. Survivors can prove to themselves that they can do it and people like me can begin and then stop.
I was looking at the marathon from a different angle than I ever have, traveling further back in the pack than I was used to. A man stopped to walk with me around mile six and he told me that he was on my team (Continuum) and that he had melanoma. He thanked me for raising money for cancer and he told me that I might be the reason that he survived. He ran off and left me in tears.
A young lady started walking beside me. She confided that she was worried that she had been sick on the bridge and that she felt nauseous. I reassured her that I knew lots of people that vomit continuously and finish marathons. She seemed relieved and suddenly optimistic. She gave me a hug and set into her pace.
Jon was behind me so I texted him as I knew that he would eventually catch up to me as my run turned into a walk and the limping started. When a man in a chicken suit passed me I snapped his photo. I found it hard to leave but then a juggler zinged by me and then three ladies who were running in their brightly coloured bras. I giggled and looked over at the first aid station at mile ten. I couldn’t bring myself to saunter over and ask for help so I passed the station and sat on the curb and waited for Jon.
He came over to me with his entourage of two guys and he told me to walk with them for a bit because they were going to have beer and pizza up ahead. “Things are really different back here”, I thought.
They went ahead for the beer and pizza – in a marathon? I thought that he was kidding but there were three of his friends at the side of the road with a box of pizza and cups of beer. Perfect, I thought to myself, “this is where I stop”. Jon told the three guys… “meet us at mile 16 and take Katie to the finish line.”
Then I became Rose Ruiz, the woman who in 1980 took the subway in the middle of the Boston marathon and then crossed the finish line to win. She was also reported to have cheated in the NYC marathon qualifying race as well. I was careful to take my number and chip off before I got anywhere near there. The three guys helped me navigate the subway to see my friends finish.
My husband had been sitting next to Sandra Bullock and her entourage. Did I miss out on some star gazing to start and then drop out of a race? I met some blazing stars in the first ten miles of the New York City marathon. I may have DNF’d (Did not finish) this race but I am DNF (Definitely not Finished).










